One mum’s experiences of our work together with her 18 month old son:
Sarah was able to explain which parts of his development we should pay attention to and gave us ideas for exercises we can continue to focus on at home in order to target the specific areas. Sarah also explains how we’ll know when what we’re working has ‘worked’ My husband describes it as feeling like we have a ‘road map’ now so we know how to get to our destination instead of just trying to figure it out for ourselves and hoping for the best.
We’ve seen huge changes in our son surprisingly quickly. He’s suddenly leapt forward in his physical movement and stability as well as his understanding, social and communication skills. There’s still work to do but the progress he’s made is tangible.
The great thing is that the exercises are all things we can weave into our day easily. Even his grandparents are on board. My mum often sends little parcels through the post saying ‘these will be great for his hands’ or ‘I thought this would be fun to do when you work on crawling’ his other grandma can be heard saying ‘what lovely flat hands’ when they’re playing. His child minder also finds it easy to incorporate activities to support our son’s development that she can do with all of the children she cares for. That’s the beauty of the BUSS model. It involves really simple exercises and interventions that can be done anywhere, are great fun and don’t need lengthy therapy sessions to see rapid improvements.
Our son has great fun doing it… He doesn’t realise he’s doing ‘work’ and I can’t wait to see where the BUSS model takes him in the future.
I met Elsa and her family on the 4 stage BUSS model at Oakdale. Elsa was 6.5 years old when we started working together and Elsa’s mum did an amazing job of tracking the changes she noticed in the year following the end of the intervention. She divided them into 3-6 months post intervention and 6 – 12 months post intervention. There’s a much fuller account of the intervention and mum’s account in the ‘Building Underdeveloped Sensorimotor Systems’ book, but I thought it might be helpful to just hear from Elsa’s mum very briefly about some of the changes she’d noticed at 3-6 months post intervention, and also to look at Elsa’s human figure drawings before and after the intervention.
3 – 6 months post intervention
Vestibular and Proprioceptive Systems
Sitting – better able to sit on a chair at mealtimes – at home this means she eats much better. At school she finds it much easier to sit and is able to complete tasks. At home she can sit at the table and write her homework really neatly. Elsa is delighted that her letters look the way she’d like them to!
Elsa recently completed a wood balancing trail without any help- she would never have been able to do this before.
Overall walking and running are much smoother and better co-ordinated. Elsa gets pleasure from moving around and being able to do the things she wants to do.
Elsa now goes up and down stairs without using her eyes to track her movements or her hands on the banisters. She comes down putting one foot on each step – and can do this at various speeds
She can now do handstands and really good cartwheels. Elsa also loves hula hooping – these are all things Elsa tried before but just didn’t have enough control of her body to be able to do them. She’s also started learning to roller skate
Much better eater – less fussy, enjoys food more
I’ve noticed Elsa doing things that she’s never been able to do before in terms of understanding herself on an emotional level and being able to regulate. A couple of examples from this week – when Elsa gets angry she now asks if she can do some exercise or read a book like her ‘how are you feeling today’ book. She’s got a sense of how she’s feeling and that she needs to calm down and is beginning to be able to do that. The second one happened last week, and after a crying session where Elsa suddenly said she had tummy ache (she had been fine all evening) she finally managed to tell me that she felt lonely in her bedroom at night and it was too dark. This is the first time she’s been able to tell me exactly what she feels’
Angry outbursts at home have definitely decreased as Elsa is better able to understand herself and how she was feeling. Bedtimes have also got a lot better – both in terms of how long it takes for Elsa to get off to sleep and also how much parental intervention is required.
Human Figure Drawings
As part of the assessment and the follow up session (usually 8 weeks later) we ask children to draw the best picture they can of a whole person. We’re looking at lots of things here, but it’s been interesting to see the changes in these pictures – and Elsa’s was quite a dramatic change!
There’s a much fuller account of Lenny’s therapy in the ‘Building Underdeveloped Sensorimotor Systems’ book, but mum and I thought it might be helpful to share some brief sections of that.
Lenny was six years old and in Year One at school when I met him. School had just begun to talk to mum about whether his needs would be better met in an alternative provision – none of the strategies they were using seemed to be working. Lenny seemed hyper-aroused nearly all of the time and spent his day racing around school. He ran through rather than round other children, couldn’t sit on his chair or the carpet for longer than a couple of seconds, and was constantly getting into altercations with other children.
Lenny’s mum was fantastic and together we started to work on Lenny’s tactile, vestibular and proprioceptive systems and we worked together for almost a year. Mum describes some of the differences she began to notice.
“At school , staff were saying that Lenny had really calmed down a lot – and it was nice just to have people saying something positive to you, rather than the walk of shame. He managed to be able to tolerate groups after school, which he’d not been able to do before, and extracurricular activities he’d not managed before– it was really life changing for him
Before the whole queuing up and taking turns was a big no no, but I remember we went to a farm about a year or so after we’d met you, and normally, going to a farm and having to wait for a go on a rope swing would be really hard for him. And I was a bit anxious watching him queue up – and it was a bit of a free for all, nobody was really supervising their children and he stood and waited and he waited. I was thinking, oh gosh, something’s going to happen in a minute, but he just waited and then he said to this girl, ‘can I have a go please’ – and I was amazed that he could manage that! So that was – wow – that’s just a major step. Then he’s moved onto other successes with his football – he’s a goalie and was scouted by a premiership team and went and trained with them for a while – and managed it! He really enjoyed that – he’s just doing so well.”
It was Lenny’s mum who ‘invented’ bubble mountain, which is now a firm favourite with many families- you can watch Sarah and her daughter doing it here
Working with older children and teenagers can be really constructive – it’s usually possible to think together about the concepts of the model and for the young person to think about how it might apply to them. They’re usually pretty aware of what they can and can’t do and have often consciously developed strategies to manage – a fifteen year old recently described feeling so self conscious about running because her arms just seemed to have a life of their own, making her look like an octopus, that she either completely avoided any physical activity or tried to keep her hands in her pockets when she was doing anything physical.
For others, that feeling of being different to others and having to struggle physically on a day to day basis, means that they can become really depressed and hopeless. While I always wish that I could have met them at an earlier point in their lives, it’s great to be able to help them so that they can use their energy for normal teenage things and not to try and manage their bodies.
Amber is one such young person – we only met for a few sessions, but she was so relieved to find out that there might not be something wrong with her physically, and that it might be possible to work to fill in the gaps, that she made fantastic progress… When I first met Amber, her foundation sensorimotor systems were so underdeveloped that she had to expend a phenomenal amount of energy just trying to ‘manage’ her body. She struggled with everything from getting dressed, making breakfast, writing, running – everything was an uphill struggle, leaving very little energy for creative thought or friendships. Amber and her mum worked really hard together to rebuild those systems and Amber herself described how much less tired she felt once her foundation system were in better shape, and described the confidence she found she had to go out and do things, make friends, engage in activities that she’d often thought that she’d like to do but just couldn’t manage. Amber’s mum writes a really moving account of the work in the ‘Building Sensorimotor Systems in Children with Developmental Trauma’ book.
You can read more feedback on Therapy with us below:
“Hey guys we just wanted to give you an update on how things are going since we were signed off BUSS…
We’ve continued the games, especially the tactile games as we feel the most benefit from them, feely bag is firmly part of our school run routine. And he absolutely loves doing the walking backwards up the wall into a handstand, he was very wobbly the first few times he did it he looked like a drunk crab, but now he does it so well and he even got me doing it!
We’ve noticed massive differences in his peer to peer relationships, his behaviour around playing with other kids and not having to be in control all the time have massively improved. He’s now able to play out with the kids on the street without us worrying he’s causing trouble. And school, well, we can’t remember when he was last on Red (school traffic light system) it’s been a long time, and it’s so nice not to have that worry picking when picking him up. He seems to be enjoying going to school now and for the first time today he said ‘Dad I actually like going to school’ which literally made me nearly fall off my chair! Further to this we are able to leave him at holiday clubs and camps now without any issues, prior to BUSS he was almost banned from a couple of holiday clubs in the area due to his behaviour.
His swimming lessons have also improved massively he’s been stuck on Stage 4 for about a year but suddenly since starting BUSS he’s passed a couple more stages and he was even teaching me when I took him swimming last weekend.
Thank you so much for all you did for us it’s been life changing, we still call the games the Jenna and Laura games.”
“In just a short period of time Sarah has had a tremendous impact in Leeds in developing and testing out the BUSS model. It is one of the best decisions I have made to support her secondment. The BUSS model and impact this is having is recognised by our strategic boards where she has presented her findings.”
“BUSS is such a positive intervention to be part of, it just brings a smile to your whole being. Thank you for recognising the need and developing the intervention.”
“At TouchBase we strongly recommend Sarah Lloyd and her team. We believe in what Dr Bruce Perry states that the more science literate our society can become the better off we will all be. As a practitioner in trauma recovery and as an adoptive mum I can vouch that we must get this model into the hands of those who are parenting and teaching as this will be a lifeline to many and will change the trajectory for so many children and young people who would otherwise have been misunderstood and misinterpreted.”
“The BUSS Model makes sense. The BUSS Model offers a framework to support children who have survived developmental trauma to re-build their sensory systems. It aims to put the bricks back in the wall for children who have experienced missed opportunities in their development due to neglect, trauma or adversity, by helping them to feel safe in their body, develop a sense of self and support their regulation.
What Beacon House loves about the BUSS Model is that it aligns with the Neurosequential Model of therapeutics and supports the attachment piece by empowering and equipping parents and carers with a tool-box of practical and fun based sensory re-building activities that they can incorporate into their everyday life. As a service we value its simplicity and inclusivity and are currently planning how to incorporate the BUSS model into our service.”
BUSS in Education
“BUSS has had a much wider impact in our school than the school readiness programme. Staff who were involved in LEAPlets began to identify children who were looked after or vulnerable across the school whose foundation sensorimotor systems were underdeveloped and who were really struggling with the demands of the classroom and playground. We’d noticed how much they seemed to struggle in terms of attention and focus, but started to look more closely at what their core stability was like – whether part of the problem was that they were having to use a lot of energy just sitting in their chairs or writing. We worked with Sarah to develop a ‘Core Body Builders’ group that took in children across the classes in key stage two, and started working in school to fill in the gaps in their foundation sensorimotor systems. We were quite shocked to see how many gaps there were for some children, and really pleased that we’d decided to pay attention to it and are seeing real benefits to this approach. We’re also surprised by how intuitive it now feels and we wonder why we didn’t know this before! In the early years we trained all staff in BUSS and made a decision to take out all desks and chairs, so that their whole environment involved floor based play and learning. PE is completely geared around BUSS and helping to build good bodily regulation as a platform for learning, friendships and play.”
“From speaking to Sarah about her observations of children who have experienced trauma and adverse early childhoods, it was clear that at Grimes Dyke there were many children who fitted this brief. Whilst the majority of the children had not experienced the care system, they had various trauma filled lives which had impacted upon their early development. Just by walking around school with Sarah and looking at the way children sat at tables, moved around school or sat to eat lunch demonstrated how many of our children had undeveloped systems. Once we identified the two key year groups and took part in the training we were off, the staff through themselves into the programme and truly believed in it’s potential. They were quickly celebrating the impact of children being able to concentrate for longer, write at greater length or use everyday tools such as a knife a fork more comfortably. Word spread around the staffroom and very soon other teachers were trying some of the basic techniques such as regular ‘tummy time’ and allowing children to work on the floor where possible. We’ve seen the impact of Buss at Team GD and will continue to build the principles into every day learning at Grimes Dyke.”
“Investing in this work to realise a positive impact on educational outcomes for children who have experienced care is something I envision becoming an embedded part of the ‘offer’ for looked after children in the early years.”
"It was really interesting thinking in an integrated way about the impact of regulated trauma. Really loved the model of creating a shared narrative around the child with family and wider super system ahead of assessment.
I also loved the “trying it out” time for parents!"
"I found it interesting, thought-provoking, and enlightening. A lightbulb moment!"
“The best thing is that the strategies are easy to do – don’t focus on feelings and emotional issues. Children might enjoy the practical suggestions rather than trying to explain ‘why’ they’re doing something they shouldn’t.”
Adoption Support Social Worker
"It was so useful to get a real understanding of how and why our son acts and thinks the way he does"
“Very inspiring trainer: so passionate and knowledgeable with a cheeky sense of humour brought everything alive.”
Residential Support Worker
“I will really be able to integrate some of this into my Theraplay practice, as well as when training adopters.”
"I can see how this can be applied to many children"
“I got a real sense that Sarah wants people to learn and be confident to use this approach.”
Independent Fostering Agency Manager
"All aspects of the worship were useful! Especially the practical activities, I can definitely implement most aspects of the workshop into my working day"
Deputy Head Teacher
"The most interesting part was listening to Sarah explain the model in such an informative engaging, warm, and passionate way"
Associate Dean of Learning and Teaching at the Tavistock Clinic
“Thank you, really motivated to incorporate this into school”
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